Attracting Love made easy

I have been divorced for a long time and dating is something I try to avoid even thinking about.  Where do you go?  Is online dating safe?  Am I going to attract the SAME MAN - DIFFERENT BODY?  I seem to attract the same thing over and over again.  Funny story - I did a free trial test with an online service and I filled out pages and pages of information about myself in order for this group to determine my "perfect match".  You gotta love it - I am a comedy performer/hypnotherapist who lives what I consider a free thinking lifestyle - The first 3 responses from my 'PERFECT MATCH" were from engineers - who can guess what my ex-husband does for a living?  I began to think that I am doomed to attract the same thing over and over.  In the meantime I was researching information for a hypnotherapy recording on love - the whole concept how we attract the people we do - and Voila - of course I attract what I put out!   The idea of pheromones is fascinating to me - add that to body language and vibes and it all made sense -  What if I subconsciously changed what I attract by changing what I put out. What a Concept.   Common sense (and all available research) tells me that if I want loyal decent people in my life - I become a loyal decent person.  Humans tend to pack together with commonality of ideaology - I hang with "like" people - It is instinctual.  So I wrote and recorded a cd  (see Attracting Love - www.stressbustters.com).  I test my recordings on my devoted friends who are willing to be guinea pigs -  (signing up for friendship can be done by responding to this blog or by trying out the free Fly Free session on the site!).  Anyway the results were so much fun - a friend told me that she met a guy at Home Depot!!  Another really shy friend said that she had been approached by people that she found a lot in common with  at college - not just guys.  I remain single - I have opened my social circle and have been asked out more times recently than I have for years.  When you think about it -  Mating has been going on for centuries, long before speed dating or online sites - The secret I found was to use a little common sense - - mix in the instinctual, biological nature of men and women  -add in the enormous power of the inner mind to favorably alter the signals that you are putting out and the result is extraordinary!   This recipe for dating success is the best thing I have found.  Let me know about your success in the dating arena.  I am always fascinated by alternative ways of approaching life - especially when it comes to the opposite sex.